Articles and Guides for Reform and Liberal Weddings
Here you will find articles and guides for couples planning a Reform, liberal, traditional or secular wedding, in Israel and abroad. I wrote them from my work as a rabbi and an attorney, so you can understand your options and build a chuppah that truly fits you. — Rabbi and attorney David Mordecai
Sefirat HaOmer Wedding: Which Days Are Allowed in 2027
Planning a Sefirat HaOmer wedding? Where the custom comes from, permitted days in 2027 for Ashkenazim and Sephardim, and whether a Reform rabbi officiates.
Children at Their Parents’ Wedding: Roles and a Sample Reading
A children's reading at the parents' wedding and other roles: how to prepare kids, children from a previous relationship, and a sample text to adapt.
Tallit at a Wedding: Customs, Meaning and Ideas
A tallit at a wedding: where the custom comes from, Ashkenazi and Sephardi practice, a tallit as the chuppah canopy, family tallitot and practical tips.
Jewish Wedding Ring Exchange: What to Say and Do
The Jewish wedding ring exchange: why the ring is plain, the words of kiddushin, a mutual exchange at a Reform wedding, and tips for choosing rings.
Can a Kohen Marry a Convert? Halacha and Options
Can a kohen marry a convert? What halacha says, the daughter of a convert, and options like civil marriage abroad. General information, not legal advice.
Jewish Wedding Vows Examples and a Simple Structure
Jewish wedding vows examples: a simple three part structure, writing tips, what to leave out, and original heartfelt, light and short vows to adapt.
Jewish Wedding Dates to Avoid in 2027
Jewish wedding dates to avoid 2027: fasts, Chol HaMoed, the Omer and the Three Weeks, Ashkenazi and Sephardi differences, and liberal options.
Jewish Wedding Witnesses: Who Can Serve and What They Do
Jewish wedding witnesses: how many you need, what they do at the ketubah signing and kiddushin, who can serve in Orthodox practice and at a Reform wedding.
Jewish Vow Renewal Ceremony: How to Plan One
A Jewish vow renewal ceremony: when couples hold one, what it can include, from chuppah and wine to personal vows, and how to involve children.
Can a Cohen Marry a Divorcee? Options for Couples
Can a cohen marry a divorcee? What halacha says, why the Israeli Rabbinate will not marry you, and the real options. General information, not legal advice.